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| Primary Love Styles and their defenition |
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Eros - Physical Love
Storge - Compaionate Love
Ludus - Game playing Love |
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| Secondary Love styles and defenition |
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Mania - Possesive love (Eros + ludus)
Pragma: Practical Love (Storge + ludus)
Agape: Unselfish Love (storge + eros) |
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| Sternbergs triangular theory of Love and three angles defenition |
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Intimacy: foundation of triangle - latent refers to internal feeling of closeness observable by others more common in mature relationships and Manifest refers to affectional benavior that is more common in younger relationships
Passion: based on motivation but is unstable and uncontrolable
Commitment: based on choices and trust - reletavily stable and controalable |
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| Ainsworth three childrens attachment styles and percentages |
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Secure: 70%
Avoidant: around 20%
Anxious - Ambivalent: Around 10% |
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| Batholomews four styles of attachment |
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Secure - pro social style
Preoccupied -Emotional Style
Fearful: Hesitant style
Dismissive: The detached Style |
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| Different Attitudes toward Sex |
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Procreation - babies
Recriation - for fun
Relational - commitment
Serial Monogamy - jumping from relationship to relationshop |
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| Courtship and sex differences in Gay/lesbian relationships |
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| more men = more sex and vice versa |
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| Scheflens 5 courtship stages |
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Attention
Courtship readiness
Positioning
Invitations and sexial arousal
Resolution |
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| Different yples of couples and involvement levels |
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Rapid - 7%
Gradual 31%
Delayed - 44%
Low Involvement - 17% |
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| Strategies to inititate sex |
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Hinting
Sexual indduanndo
expresson of closeness
Antisocial acts
preassure and manipulation
logic and reasoning |
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| fake resistance that teaches men that NO doesnt mean no |
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| Impotartance of verbal resistance |
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keeping a relationship:
in exisitance
in a specific state or condition
in a satisfactory condition
in repair |
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| Common types of maintenance behavior |
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Openness
positivity
task sharing
assurance
social networking
supportiveness
joint activities
romance and affection
mediated communication
humor
avoidance
antisocial
conflict management
balance |
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| Sex difference in maintenance |
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men like to engange in activities
women value ccommunication |
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| Cross Sex Friendship challanges |
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Emotional bond challange
Sexual challange
Public Presentation challange |
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| reasons to keep cross sex friendships platonic |
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safeguarding the relationship
not attracted
netwrok disapproval
third party
risk aversion
time out |
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Dialectic of intergration-seperation
dialectic of stability - change
dialectic of expression- privacy |
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| Baxter - Managing dialectical tensions |
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Selection
Seperation
Cyclical Alteration
Topical Segmentation
Neutraiation
Moderation
Disqualification
Reframing |
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| a string of rewards and costs which determind hte survival or demis of a relationship |
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| unrecoverable inputs depositied into a relatinship like time, effort and social networks that came to be because of the relationship |
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| comparing the ratio of contributions to benefits in the relationships |
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