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Marriage - Test 3
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05/03/2014

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In what area does god want marriages to prosper?
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In the Soul realm, physical realm and spiritual realm
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What is Jesus referred to as?
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WORD
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What is the Bible referred to as?
Definition
WORD of God
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What is marriage as per Gods word?
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our stairway to heaven
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What are two aspects to bear in mind at all times?
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Renewing the Mind & Unity
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What is baggage?
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Anything that hinders our attaining growth in our marital relationship
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What is the difference between sin and wounds?
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Sin is Self Inflicted & Wounds are others inflicted
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How do they hinder our relationships?
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They affect the way we interpret life around us, wounds affect the way we choose relationships, wounds create perpetual life themes, wounds affect our relationships, the lie in the wound will create an insatiable void,
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How do we give it power?
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by not renewing our minds with the Word, by not making decisions to deal with it, by not dealing with it (that's three out of 6 answers)
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When does baggage cease to be baggage?
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when it no longer has power
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How do we deal with baggage?
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Put our trust and faith in Jesus Christ, renew our minds with his word, identify the type of baggage whether it is a wound or sin.
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What does the Greek word Epilanthanomai mean?
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Forget
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What is sin?
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anything that goes against God or his word
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Give 5 Biblical examples.
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Abraham deceived Abimelech king of gear that Sarah was not his wife, Isaac deceived the men of Gerar that Rebekah was not his wife, Jacob deceived his faither that he was Esau, Joseph's brothers deceived their father that joseph had been killed.
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What about born again believers?
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Jesus paid for our sin, transgression and iniquity
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Explain what good and bad soul ties are.
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Good is Legal Bad is not Legal
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How do we break soul ties & generational curses?
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we ask the Lord through Prayer, ask for forgiveness and forgive, ask the Holy spirit to reveal to you any area that Satan is using to influence your life.
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Give some reasons why you should NOT marry?
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To please people, because everybody else is doing it, you might never find anyone else, to get out of the house, for status
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List three most important ingredients for a marriage.
Definition
Love Trust & Responsibility
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What is God’s view point on divorce?
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God says don't do it. He will only allow it if the unsaved partner does not wish to go on but firstly he encourages the saved one to be a godly example in order to help lead the other to salvation
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What are the twelve major causes of divorce?
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Communication, sexual incompatibility, different leisure times, disagreement over how to raise children, financial collapse, sexual unfaithfulness,
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Where is the covenant of a Christian marriage made?
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at the foot of the cross
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What is the blue print for marriage?
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God's design for marriage is that a husband and wife are brought together to be one with him in a trinity of unity forever.
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What is the trinity in marriage?
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God the husband and the wife
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List the three root words the Hebrew for covenant is comprised of.
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bereeth, bawraw, bawrah
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When we make a vow before God what can we expect from him?
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his blessing and his favor
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List three phases to the covenant.
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laying down your life, out of death comes new life, fruitation
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List four ways God keeps His covenant?
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Love, Faithfulness, Forgiveness
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List and give the meaning of the 5 different loves used in the New Testament to describe different
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Epithumia - a strong desire of any kind. Eros - Romantic, sentimental. Storage - Comfortable old show type relationship. Phileo - Tender affection and cherishing. Agape - The foundation of all loves, God is agape love
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What is Loyalty?
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Faithful
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What are loyalty principles?
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Loyalty is an issue of the heart, give up all close single friends of opposite sex
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What are bad influences?
Definition
soap operas, romance novels, porn, sexual videos
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What is Gods formula for marriage?
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Leave + Cleave = One Flesh
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What does “Leave” mean? Give some reasons why spouses don’t leave.
Definition
to loosen to depart. Parental problems.
Term
How do we prepare to leave our parents?
Definition
get their blessing
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How do we leave our parents
Definition
leave them physically
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What does “Cleaving” mean?
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to adhere, to cling to join
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Give some analogies of what cleaving is.
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to stay stuck to our choice like a shadow, to be joined together
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How do we cleave? List seven principles.
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To leave everyone else, to remain pure sexually, leave for the long term, live at your standard of living, we are to work at our own marital happiness, we are to forgive, keep god in the center of our marriage
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What do we need to do after being married?
Definition
Ensure we have Leave & Cleave, Honor our parents
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Define Honor.
Definition
Giving Credit
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Define Respect.
Definition
Deferential esteem
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What does Leave & Cleave =?
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Honor & Respect
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Give and explain marriage stages.
Definition
Before Leaving, Early Marriage, Middle Marriage, Elderly Marriages
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List consistent things that must be in place at all times regarding parents and in –laws.
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Reality, redefine loyalty, recognize authority, your priorities
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What is the role and responsibility of the wife?
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Understand and support your husbands submitting to them
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What is the differentiation of role and responsibility?
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Role is usual function responsibility is that which one is accountable for
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What is a helper?
Definition
the wife
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What is it that the wife and husband are to accomplish?
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to be fruitful, to multiply, to fill, to subdue the earth, to have dominion
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What is the significance that woman was taken out of man?
Definition
to show us without a wife man is incomplete and without a husband man is incomplete
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Under what circumstance or how do wives have to submit?
Definition
everything but a husband cannot stop a wife from serving God
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What are the results of un-submissive wives?
Definition
Unhappy marriage, teenage brats, divorce
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What are four most important things a man wants in a wife?
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Good housekeeper, good cook, good sex partner, good mother for children
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List five points that will make you husband only have eyes for you.
Definition
Love him, encourage him and understand him, hold him, initiate affection romance and sexual advances
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What is the role and responsibility of the husband?
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To be a Leader and to Love
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Why don’t husbands lead or take charge?
Definition
wrong beliefs
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List seven wrong behaviors why men are not able to lead?
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passive, abuse, absence, enlarged ego, bitterness,
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As a leader what does God expect you to be? List five things.
Definition
Provider, Protector, loving leader, high priest, physician
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What are the requirements for leading a wife?
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Authority and Power
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How do you get it?
Definition
Sacrifice yourself, accept your wife,
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What are some things that you need to do everyday?
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Hold your wife, touch your wife, speak softly to your wife, say I love you, praise her, help her, leave love notes, write her a love letter, take her out.
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Does a child belong to the parent? Briefly explain.
Definition
The child belongs to God
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Why is it necessary to train their children?
Definition
they are born with the nature to sin, they are born without knowledge, they are vulnerable
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How do we train them in the ways of the Lord?
Definition
demonstrate love for God
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What is the purpose for the father’s discipline?
Definition
For the good of the children
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What is the primary cause for the exercise of discipline?
Definition
Disobedience
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List seventeen points on Guidance.
Definition
make sure your discipline is motivated by love, administer with a biew to instruction, lay the proper groundwork for discipline, follow basic guildlines, never raise your voice,
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List 7 areas children need guidance in.
Definition
Socially, spiritually, personally, vocationally, morally, financially, physically
Term
What is the #1 reason why people split?
Definition
Money
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Who should administer the finances?
Definition
survey shows mostly women do but whoever has the abilities and major decisions should be made together
Term
What are four requirements for being good at this job?
Definition
Ability motivation discipline time
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What does it mean to “put first things first”?
Definition
make sure you have enough money to pay bills before you start spending
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What is surety for financial success and prosperity?
Definition
Put God first through tithes and offerings
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List seven helpful tips when it comes to finances.
Definition
Limit Credit payments to 20% of take home pay, decide your spending limits and stick to them, don't buy everyday items on credit, start saving, set up a budget and stick to it.
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Briefly explain a practical budget.
Definition
it's an orderly way of discovering what you can live on what you're making
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How does God want us to handle financial prosperity?
Definition
He wants us to use it for the Glory of God
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Why is communication crucial in our marriages?
Definition
if we do not communicate we are imposing excommunication on ourselves
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What causes corrupt communication?
Definition
when the communion has been excommunicated from the union and we now have corrupt communication
Term
List three basic steps to clean up our hearts.
Definition
Renewing our minds, watch for idle words, always forgive
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What is the secret to effective communication?
Definition
Be honest and be loving
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What are the two types of words? Break them down.
Definition
Foul and good. Foul is destructive, good is constructive
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List three ways we “hear” communication.
Definition
Through the words used (heart) through he tone (emotions) though our body language (sub-conscious)
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What are the principles for uncorrupted communication in a marriage?
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Don't lie, control anger, reconcile immediately, never assume
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List the five levels of communication.
Definition
Clichés, sharing facts and information, sharing your opinion, sharing feelings, sharing feelings without fear of rejection
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What happens in a marriage without romance?
Definition
it has fallen off the stairway to heaven
Term
What are the questions you should ask before getting involved with someone?
Definition
are they born again, do they have a history of abuse, have they been previously married?
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What is romance?
Definition
it is a language, arrangement of words in speech or writing. Romance is the language of God and love.
Term
List some of the causes of the romance flame going out.
Definition
resentment, unforgiveness, vengeance, hatred
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List five principles.
Definition
assume your role, fulfill your responsibilities, render sexual affection
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What makes a man and a woman attractive?
Definition
Men - understand and giving honor, notice when she is in need, takes care of her. Women - gentle, quiet sprit, femininity
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How does God view sex?
Definition
God views sex with honor and respect
Term
What is sex in marriage?
Definition
Holy
Term
What was the first thing that Adam and his wife were conscious of after their initial sin?
Definition
their nakedness and sexuality
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What is sexual intercourse between a husband and wife a form of? Support your answer.
Definition
covenant
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List five principles for sex in marriage.
Definition
never have sex outside of marriage, always abstain from immoral temptation, learn to handle your own sex drive, tell your spouse what it will take for you to be fulfilled
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What are the boundaries? Give 2 parameters
Definition
no multiple partners, the marriage is to be held in honor and the bed undefiled
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Sex = ?
Definition
sex = intimacy with our covenant with god and our spouse
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