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Reubins liking and Loving Scales 3 components |
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| questions with giving, taking, and disclosure |
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| Security, trust, safety with someone |
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| Concern over someone else's life |
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Passionate and Companionate |
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| A state of intense longing for union with another |
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| Affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined |
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| Components of Passionate Love |
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| Roaring fire, ignore bad, "romantic love", idealistic |
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| Components of Companionate love |
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| well tended fire, warm glow, shared trust, more cognitive side than the physical side, tender moments, deep seeded feelings |
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Passionate=draw people together, hard to sustain a bonfire, intense, hot Companionate=keeps people together, stands the test of time |
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Primary=Eros, Ludus, Storge Secondary=Mania, Pragma, Agape |
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| Physical, holding hands, emotion, arousal, similar to passionate love |
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De-emphasize relationship, sex is a sport, "playa!" |
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| Friendship, slow developing, emphasis on cognitive side, commitment, commonality |
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Eros and Ludus Wary of rejection, never trust, not really sure other person loves you, great desire, want control (Media?) |
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Storge and "shopping element" of Ludus, practical, look around for compatability. Made a list and check it twice. |
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Commitment of storge and passion of Eros Altruism=unselfish concern for another without expectation of return (beautiful) |
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| Body/What you can do for me/Seeks pleasure |
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Soul love, what can I do for you, seeks the person. Risk=the one whom you give your heart might not love you sacredly. "If two people love one another in a sacred way, well, that is when heaven has come down to earth." |
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| Sternberg's Triangular Theory components |
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intimacy, passion, commitment |
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