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We develop relationships based on attraction to another, physical, intellectual, similarity
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Group of theories that state we wiegh the pros and cons of a relationship before we decide to persue that relationship
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| Social penetration theory |
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communication moves from levels such as names, where your from, to more intimate such as fears world views.
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Idiosyncratic communication |
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personalized communication developed and maintained in a relationship
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are repetitive communication enactments that pay homage to a person or object
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represents both the desire to be independent and intimate in a relationship
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| Novelty vs. Predictability |
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desire to want new in a relationship while also needed consitency
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desire for open communication in a relationship and the opposite
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| Feminine communication Rules |
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1. use talk to build and maintain relatioship 2. avoid outdoing and criticizing 3. pay attention to others feeling and emotions
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| Masculine communication rules |
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1. make sure ideas are known and clear 2. attract and maintain an audience 3. use talk to achieve status
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interpersonal situations in which two or more individuals percieve their needs or ideas to be at odds with, or opposed to, the needs or ideas of someone else
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refers to cultural values that emphasize the identity of the individual over the larger group
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group identity over individual identity
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indivdual withdraws from conflict
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seeks to satisfy the other person over yourself
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bargaining, address each persons concern
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satisfying ones own needs over anothers
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giving something to get something, address nees and arrive ata solution
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| Conflict management stratagies |
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1. approach 2. Rules and expectations 3. Specifiy 4. Perception checks 5. Style - flexing 6. Remain focused
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Self defined group who create and maintain themselves through their own interactions, intimate relationships
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all family memebers are connected to all other members, movement or actions of one family member sends ripples to others
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Traditional family, married couple living with biological children
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Two people of the same sex living in the same household and often parenting for a child
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Family where relatives such as grandparents live in household as well
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| Step Family / Blended family |
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Two adults care for a child or children from a previous relationship
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One adult and one or more dependent children
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Thoose that live together and have declared their love through holy matrimony
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Thoose that live together and share a romantic interest
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Evaluating and judging the other person
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Responding in a resisting manner
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Lack of respect for another
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Removing oneself emotionaly and physically from a conversation
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Family develop relation ship cultures and create meaning
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| Implicit rules in the famly |
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| Explicit rules in the family |
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Rules stated clearly and intently
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Functions that strengthen a family, cited as experts as one of the most important things you can do
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Metaphor that represents what the family is like
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One partner is assertive and the other is not
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Patterns of the relationship are symetrical
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Relationship power is equal
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Allow other person to control conversation
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Verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature when conduct unreasonably interfers with work or creates a hostile offensive work place
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