Details Title: Inter personal comm Description: chapter 9 Total Flash Cards: 27 Created: 03/29/2009 01:40:57		New Users: To study from this flashcard set, or to create your own your own study flash cards, REGISTER HERE. Existing Users: CLICK HERE. Additional Debate/Speech Flashcards
Cards in this set: Term why we form relationships Definition appearance, similarity, complementarity(opposites attratct) rewards(rewars-costs-outcome), competency, proximity, disclosure Term comparison level Definition minimum standard of what behavior is acceptable Term comparison level of alternatives Definition comparison between the rewars she is receiveing in a present situation and those she could expect to reeive in others. Term initiating Definition networking, offering, and approaching Term experimenting Definition small talk Term intensifying Definition express felling directly, I.L.U etc Term integrating Definition sense of obligation grows, expect more from each other Term bonding Definition make symbolic gestures, Term differentiating Definition stressful feeling need space Term circumscribing Definition communication between memebers decreases in quantity and quality Term stagnating Definition no growth occurs, in the relationship Term avoiding Definition people in a relationship begin to create distance between each other, expressing detachment, avoiding involvment, showing antagonism, mentallly dissociate Term terminating Definition summary dialougues of where the realtionsip has gone and the desire to dissociate Term dialectical tensions Definition conflicts theat arise when two opposing or incompatible forces exist simulataneously Term integration-separation dialectic Definition set of apparently contradictory needs creats communication challenges that can show up both within a relationship and when relational partnesrs face the world. Term conection-autonomy dialectic Definition we want to be close to others but at the same time we seek independence. Term inclusion-seclusion dialectic Definition struggle to reconcile a desire for involvment with the ouside world with the desire to live thier own lives Term inclusion-seclusion dialectic Definition struggle to reconcile a desire for involvment with the ouside world with the desire to live thier own lives Term predictability-novelty dialetic Definition talks about the boredom tha cna come when hsubands and wives know each other too well Term conventionality-uniquness dialectic Definition chapllenges that people in a relationhsip face when trying to meet others expectations as well as their own Term expression-privacy dialetic Definition need to maintain some space between ourselves and others Term openness-closedness dialetic Definition internal struggle between experession and privacy shows here Term revelation-concelment dialectic Definition decisions to keep personal disagreements with others private or public with a third person Term strategies for managing dialectical tensions Definition denial, disorientation, alternation, segmentation, balance, integration, recalbration, reaffirmation Term metacommunication Definition describe messages that refer to other meassages Term compliance gaining strategies Definition tactics we use to persuade others to think and act in a certain way. Term types of compliance-gaining strategies Definition direct requests, indirect appeals, social norm of reciprocity, reward or punishment thing, face-maintenance strategies, relational appeals (we comply with others out of respect or affection