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Human Relations
Exam 3 - Ch. 6
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Psychology
Undergraduate 3
10/14/2007

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friend
Definition
a person attached to another by respect or affection
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similarities
Definition
the process of selecting friends because of comparable interests, income level, educational beliefs, and so on
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love
Definition
when the satisfaction, security, and development of another person is as important to you as your own satisfaction, security, and development; also referred to as the desire to see another individual become all they can be as a person - with room to breathe and grow
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infatuation
Definition
an irrational feeling or passion for someone or something. passion, but no commitment or intimacy
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romantic love
Definition
a form of love that includes intimacy and passion, but no commitment
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consummate love
Definition
commitment, passion, and intimacy
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5 to 1 ratio
Definition
ratio of positive interactions to negative interactions is vital to a happy relationship
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possessive love
Definition
wanting to bind the partner to an enduring relationship
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altruistic love
Definition
sacrificing for the sake of love
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exotic love
Definition
sheer physical excitement and sexual pleasure
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intimacy
Definition
the feeling that one can share all of one's thoughts and actions with another
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role expectations
Definition
beliefs about a man and woman's roles in marriage
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blended families
Definition
a family system consisting of stepchildren and stepparents
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honeymoon period
Definition
anytime from the wedding day to a year or so from that day
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communication
Definition
the process of conveying feelings, attitudes, facts, beliefs, and ideas between individuals, either verbally or nonverbally, and being understood in the way intended
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jealousy
Definition
the state of demanding complete devotion from another person; being suspicious of a rival or of one believed to enjoy an advantage
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singlehood
Definition
the decision not to marry
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liking
Definition
a fondness or preference for someone or something.  intimacy, but no commitment or passion
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empty love
Definition
a form of love that includes commitment, but no intimacy or passion
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companionate love
Definition
commitment and intimacy, but no passion
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lust
Definition
an intense physiological attraction for another person
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repulsion hypothesis
Definition
people are initially, spontaneously repulsed by strangers who are very dissimilar to themselves
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game-playing love
Definition
treating love like a game or sport
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logical love
Definition
treating love as a practical down to earth decision
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commitment
Definition
a joint decision to begin a relatively long-lasting, more intimate relationship that to some extent includes other intimate relationships
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marriage
Definition
a close union of two people who decide to share their lives, dreams, and goals with each other
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parenthood
Definition
the role of being a mother or father
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codependent
Definition
a dependency on people - on their moods, behavior, sickness, well-being, and their love
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envy
Definition
the thoughts and feelings that arise when our personal qualities, possessions, or achievements do not measure up to those of someone relevant to us
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remarriage
Definition
marrying for the second, third, or subsequent time
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divorce
Definition
a complete, legal breaking up of a marriage
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cohabitation
Definition
a situation in which couples live together outside of a marriage
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romeo and juliet effect
Definition
same as psychology reactance - when love is intensified, not weakened, by their families opposition
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complementary needs
Definition
one person's stengths compensate for the others weaknesses
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confidant
Definition
a significantly close personal friend with whom one can safely share one's deepest concerns and joys
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fatuous love
Definition
commitment and passion, but no intimacy
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psychological reactance
Definition
the tendency to protect or restore one's sense of freedom or social control, often by doing the opposite of what has been demanded
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reciprocity
Definition
the tendency to like individuals who tend to be like us
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living together loneliness (LTL)
Definition
the results of a discrepancy between expected and achieved contact
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passion
Definition
an intense psychological desire for another person
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social exchange theory
Definition
we measure our actions and relationships on a cost-benefit basis.  People maximize their rewards and minimized their costs by employing their resources to gain the most favorable outcome.
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