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HDFS Exam 4--Single Parents
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Undergraduate 1
04/04/2012

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Term
serial monogamy
Definition
having number of monogamous marriages across one’s life
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single parent families
Definition
-usually headed by female
-include families where two adults are cohabitating
-normally created by divorce and births to unmarried women
-not so much widowhood
-divorce women better off than unmarried women
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social father
Definition
-male relative, family associate, or mothers partner who demonstrates parental behaviors and is like father to child
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private safety nets
Definition
support from social networks which single mothers fall back on in times of need
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single parenting is usually...
Definition
a transitional state
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in one parent household...
Definition
mother becomes more responsive and closer to children and has to play authory role
Term
characteritisc of successful single parents
Definition
-Acceptance of responsibilities and challenges of single parenthood
-Parenting as first priority
-Consistent, nonpunitive disciple
-Emphasis on open communication
-Fostering individuality supported by the family
-Recognition for the need of self-nurturance
-Dedication to rituals and traditions
Term
single parent family strengths
Definition
-Parenting skills
-Personal growth
-Communication
-Family management
-Financial support
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binuclear family
Definition
post divorce family system with children--step parents and children
Term
---- divorced singles marry within year of marriage`
Definition
1/3
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remarrage
Definition
-declined---more people cohabit
-children lower possibility of remarriage for both genders but more for women
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women and men find possible people to remarry at....
Definition
-workplace
-leisurly activites
-social networking
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if single parent family formed by divorce
Definition
-One biological parent is not longer there
-All family members have suffered the loss of an important primary relationship
-Parenting is the most important adult role
-Children may belong to more than one household
Term
unmarried single-parent families
-1960
1999
2007
Definition
-most household headed by single mothers
-some mothers cohabitating
-increase in all racial groups-hispanics highest
-5.3%
-33%
-38%
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median family income for two married parent families is...
Definition
-three times that of divorced single mother families
-four times that of never-married singe-mother families
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children raised without two married parents are more likely to...
Definition
-Be poor
-Use drugs
-Drop out of school or to fail academically
-Be abused
-Develop chronic health problems
-Divorce when they marry
-Become unwed parents
-Commit crimes leading to jail time
Term
boys of single parent families
Definition
-2 to 3 times more likely to be in jail
-72% of adolescent murders
-70% of long-term inmates
-60% of convicted rapists
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Single parenthood is not likely to be harmful to children if the parent is...
Definition
-Over age 30
-At least a high school graduate (college is even better)
-Not romantically involved
Term
single parenthood is not likely to be harmful to children if there is/are
Definition
-Only one or two children
-A stable family structure (no changes within the past five years or longer)
-Parental activity with friends, church, support group, etc.
-Community support for single parents
-Actively helpful and involved grandparents and other relatives
Cordial relations with other parent
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single parenting is not harmful to children if child is under age 5 and...
Definition
-Has three or fewer caregivers
-There is a high-quality preschool
-The parent works less than full-time
Term
single parenting is not harmful to children if child is over age 5 and...
Definition
-Stays in one school
-Stays in one neighborhood
-Has several friends
-The parent is employed with flexible hours
Term
remarriage
Definition
-75% of divorced people marry again
-Short courtship
-Men remarry sooner
Term
strengths of remarriage
Definition
-Couple is older
-Couple is ready
-Hope
-More sharing of housewor
Term
problems of remarriage
Definition
-Parenting children who aren’t yours
-60% of remarriages fail
-Remarriages fail sooner than first marriages
-Many remarriages split up within first 2 years
-Experience doesn’t count
Term
reasons for lower stability of remarriages
Definition
-Leftover baggage
-“not my fault”
-Can’t resolve conflict
-Same mistakes, same unrealistic expectations
-Divorce is a solution
-Lack of social support
-Special stresses
-Children-65% of remarriages
-Money
Term
step families
Definition
-Reconstituted
-Restructured
-Blended
-Remarried
-Group of people living together and one or both adults have children from another relationship
-1 in 6 children living in U.S. is step child
-9 of 10 children live with mom and step father
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step kids are more likely to...
Definition
-Do worse on measures of child-well being
-More likely to repeat grade in school again
-Drop out and have disciplinary problems
-Sexual active early and teen parent
-Abuse
----About as well off as single-parent families
Term
step kids are less likely to...
Definition
-go to college
-be helped out finacially in college
Term
consequences of step families for children
Definition
-Destroys fantasies of parent remarrying
-Step parent role is not clear
-“Instant sibling”
-Lack of attention
Term
conflicts in step families
Definition
-Favoritism
-Divided loyalties
-Discipline
-Money and things
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process of becoming a successful step-family
Definition
-Don’t go nuclear
-Work on couple relationship
-Don’t rush it
-Define roles
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strenths in step families
Definition
-More companionship and love
-Fresh insights
-Multiple role models
-Flexibility
-A happy home
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