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| Basic difference from prior theoriest (FAIRBAIRN) |
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| First departure from Drive Theory, pure model of OR stating that we are driven to make connections with people purely for the sake of connections. |
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| OR model of the mind (FAIRBAIRN) |
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Definition
structural-relational.
Interpersonal relationships directly shape internal structures of the mind, which in turn shape our interactions with others in our environment. |
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| "Being a devil in the world of angels is better than being a child alone" |
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F_to maintain any sort of relationships, even if its one where the self is considered bad, is better than not having any relationships.
- response to bad parents- they cant just neglect me, it must be because im bad. (THIS MAINTAINS THE RELATIONSHIP W THE PARENTS EVEN WHEN THEY"RE SHITTY) |
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| FAIRBAIRNS OR MODEL- 2 types of internalized objects, In response to WHAT |
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IN RESPONSE TO FRUSTRATION EGO SPLITS - into central ego and these 2 objects.
Anti-libidinal object- internal sabateur
Libidinal Object- |
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| Accessing internalized objects |
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Definition
can access both sides of the internalized object.
(EX of SELF-PARENT) - cal call upon position of being the parent, or the child, to approach whatever situation one is facing. |
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| "baring the burden of badness" |
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| F_similar to the angels and demons quote. In order to cope with harmful/neglectful parents, children must not think of their parents as being bad- still need to be perfect. Children will "bare their own badness" by internalizing the negative aspectes of their parents, making them bad-and being responsible for their parents neglect. |
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