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Cards in this set: Term Gottman's Four Horseman +1 Definition criticism, defensiveness, content, stonewalling, +1 Belligerance Term Postivite critiscism comments Definition 5:1 Term Report talk Definition conversation aimed at conveying information Term Rapport Definition speaking to gain intimacy Term Rapport Definition speaking to gain intimacy Term passive agression Definition directly expressed anger (nagging, nit picking, sarcasim) Term hidden issues Definition issues partners are unable, unaware, or unwilling to talk about Most couples deal with their issus in contet of negative events Term Gottman found that the only variable that predicted both marital stability and happiness was the amount of... Definition positive affect in the conflict Term 3 types of saftey through positive communication Definition commitment, emotional saftey, and personal saftey Term congruent message Definition verbal/nonverbal agreement Term incongruent message Definition verbal/nonverbal disagreement Term 3 obstables to valid hearing Definition silence, expectations, baggage Term 2 barriers to meaningful communication Definition timing and not letting the situation arise Term 3 causes of fear "not letting the situation arise" Definition anger, lack of energy, wanting to solve the problem Term 5 components of fighting fair Definition 1. focus on the issue 2. use "i" 3. make it a clear observable behavior 4. show emotion 5. provide a solution Term gunnysack Definition keeping ones grivences secret while tossing them into an imaginary gunnysack growing heavier over time (martyring) Term pronatatis bias Definition having a child is taken for granted whereas not having a child seems to need a justification Term what is the percentage of child free women Definition 20% Term happiest time in a marriage Definition before the first birth and after the last child leaves the nest Term 2 key factors of at risk family life Definition mother's low IQ and early pregnancy (usually=poverty) Term True or False: More children decress happiness Definition true Term effects of daycare Definition in quality daycare they thrive and are more social and independent Term 3 parenting styles Definition authoritarian, laissez faire, authoritative Term authoritarian Definition low on emotional nurturing and support but high on parental direction and control Term laissez faire Definition permissive allowing child to se own boundaries with no parental guidance Term authoritative Definition warm firm and fair combines emotional nurturing and support with parental discretion Term Four types of co parenting Definition perfect pals (12%), co operative colleagues (38%), angry associates (25%)firery foes (25%) Term No fault divorce Definition a law which exists in all 50 states it eliminates legal concepts of guilt and is a symbolic representation of how our society views divorce Term independence effect: Definition employment might contribute to a divorce by giving an unhappily married woman the economic power, the increased independence and self confidence to help her decide on a divorce Term intergenerational transmission of divorce Definition when partners remain married they serve as models of optomism about solving marital problems Term exchange theory perspective: Definition Levinger argues that spouses weigh their marital happiness against both alternative to marriage and barriers to divorce. Affection and economic concerns for children are one thing that may serve as a barrier as well as a strong religious belief agains divorce Term Types of divorce (4) Definition emotional, legal, community, psychic Term forgiveness: Definition is not reconsiliation. It is giving up the precieved right to get even. Giving up the "you own me" attitude Term Ahron's "Good divorce" Definition a good divorce does not end a family it produces a binuclear one (2 houeholds one family) Term 5 reasons for negative effects of divorce on children Definition life stress perspective, parental loss perspective, parental adjusment, economic hardship, parental conflict Term Normless norm Definition is when remarriage is seen as an incomplete situation Term white and Booths studies of remarriage Definition they found that marital quality does not vary greatly between first marriages and single or double remarriages. It is satisfaction with family life that is generally affected Term Paperhow's 7 stages of stpe family development Definition 1. fantasy 2. immersion 3. awareness 4. mobilization 5. action 6. conflict 7. resolution Term 3 main challanges in step families Definition 1. financial strains 2. role ambiguity 3. stepchildrens hostility