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| emotional bonding of family members |
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| What are six qualities of family cohesion? |
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-family members often communicated appreciation for one another
-high degree of committment
-arranged their personal schedules
-positive communication patterns
-positively deal w/crisis
-spiritual orientation |
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| What is active listening? |
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-paying attn. to what the other person is saying
-not doing anything else while the person is talking
-facing the person |
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| In 2006 women earned_____ for every dollar earned by men. |
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| List 3 factors for child abuse. |
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-Belief in physical punishment.
-Parents who were often abused and neglected themselves.
-parents may have unrealistic expectations about what the child is capable of. |
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| What are no power relationships? |
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Definition
| -situation where partners are equally able to influence each other but at the same time are not concerned about their relative power vis a vis each other |
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| What are the Horsemen of Apocalypes? |
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-contempt
-criticism
-defensiveness
-stonewalling
-belligerence |
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| Rules for a Successful Relationship |
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Definition
-express your love verbally
-do not take your relationship for granted
-make time to be alone
-offer each other an emotional support system
-express your love materially
-be physically affectionate
-express your appreciation and even admiration
-share more about yourself w/your partner than you do w/any other person
-do unto others as you would have them do unto you |
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| Characteristics for Helping a Family Deal w/Crisis |
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Definition
-spiritual values and support group
-open, supportive communication
-informal social support
-community resources
-adaptability |
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| Guidelines for Bonding a Fight |
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Definition
-level w/each other
-avoid mixed or double messages
-remember to end the argument
-don't try to win
-be willing to change yourself
-be willing to forgive
-choose the time and place carefully |
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| What is the ABCX Model of a Family Crisis? |
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Definition
| A(stressor event) interacting w/B(the family's ability to cope w/ a crisis, their crisis-meeting resources) interacting w/C(the family's apprasial of the stressor event) produces X(the crisis) |
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| What is the course of a family crisis? |
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-the event that caused the crisis
-period of disorganization that follows
-reorganization or recovery phase after the family reaches a low point
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| ability to give material and non material gifts or favors |
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-based on the dominant person's ability and willingness to punish the partner w/emotional or physical abuse or w/more subtle methods of witholding affection
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Term
| family-friendly workplace policies |
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Definition
| -workplace policies that are supportive of employee efforts to combine family and work commitments |
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Term
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stems from the dominant persons superior judgement, knowledge, and ability
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| -based on the less dominant person's emotional indentification w/the more dominant person |
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Term
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| -a cycle regarding women's earnings and paid and unpaid family work in which cultural expectations and persistent discrimination result in employed males receiving higher average earnings than women |
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Term
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Definition
| -based on the persuasive content of what the dominant person tells another individual |
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Term
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Definition
| -stems from the more dominant person's ability to claim authority or the right to request compliance |
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Term
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| -the necessary tasks of attending to both the emotional needs of all family members and the pratical needs of dependent members, such as children or elderly parents and maintaining the family domicile |
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| What are tactics used by fight evaders? |
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Definition
-leave house or scene when a fight threatens
-turn sullen and refusing to talk or argue
-derailing potential arguments by saying, "I can't take it when you yell at me."
-using the "hit & run" tactic of filing a complaint, then leaving no time for an answer
-saying "okay you win", giving in verbally , maybe even promising to do better next time, but w/out meaning it |
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Term
| What are the 6 bases of power? |
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Definition
-coercive
-reward
-expert
-informational
-referent
-legitimate |
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Term
How do you disengage from power struggles?
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Definition
-resign the crown
-do it yourself
-make an offer your partner can't refuse |
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