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| Points out others' faults |
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| Builds self up by putting others down |
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| Makes a big scene over minor issues |
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| Accuses others of misunderstanding |
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| Uses anger as a way to control others |
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| Argues over "words" to avoid the real issue |
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| Introduces irrelevant issues (race/gender) |
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| Puts others on defense by embarrassing |
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| Avoids obligations ("I forgot..., you didn't tell me"_ |
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| Tells what others want to hear, not the whole truth |
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| Omits facts, exaggerates, tells what pleases self |
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| Says "yes" or agrees without meaning it |
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| Chooses only what is self-gratifying |
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| Refuses to communicate or participate - silence |
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| Minimizes behavior ("no big deal ..., I just got into a little trouble ..., everybody does it") |
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| Says "I've changed" after doing one right thing |
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