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| Whatever liking is, love is that, amplified |
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| Whatever liking and love are, they are 2 separate entities |
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| Desire to be physically and emotionally close to another person |
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| If you receive a rewarrd in the presence of another person, you will be attracted to that person |
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| Associational-affect model |
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| If we receive an award in the presence of another person, we experience positive affect and then attraction |
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When seeking a relationship, we want:
- most reward
- fewest cost
- best value
Rewards-Cost=Outcome |
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Outcome of all previous relationships AVERAGED
Outcome-Comparison Level=Satisfaction |
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| Comparison Level Alternatives |
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Anticipated average outcomes of all future relationships
Satisfaction-Comparison Level Alternatives=Commitment |
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| You can be in a situation where satisfaction can be high when outcome is low (Rewards outweigh costs) |
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| Intrinsic characteristics of partner, Behaviors expressed towards you, external resources we didn't previously have |
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| Moms who love them unconditionally, happy upon Mom's return |
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| Anxious-ambivalent attachment |
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| Mom loves conditionally, don't know how to react upon her return |
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| Upset when Mom returns, "how dare you leave" |
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| Easy to get close to physically and emotionally |
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| Would like to get close, but are scared of idea. Obsessive and jealous |
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| Uncomfortable being close, distrustful |
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| Sense of connectedness, bond |
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| physiological arousal created by physical and sexual attraction |
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| decision to be with them and spend a lot of time with them |
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| Experience of neither intimacy, passion, nor commitment |
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| Intimacy. Want a bond with person, like friends |
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| Passion. Purely sexual attraction |
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| Commitment. No passion or intimacy, like parents who stay together for kids |
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| Intimacy and Passion. Initial intimate bond and sexual attraction that grows into love |
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| Intimacy and Commitment. Long term bond, but no passion (great grandparents) |
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| Passion and Commitment. Quick, no bond, like Vegas weddings |
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| Intimacy, Passion, Commitment. Newlyweds |
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| Preference for types of loving |
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| Greek God of Love. Purely physical type of love |
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| Multiple, simultaneous partners. No commitment |
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| Closest thing to liking. Bonds develop very slowly |
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| Madness of the Gods. Strikes out of the blue, intense romantic |
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| Shopping list of characteristics they look for |
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| Altruistic, unconditional love |
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| intense state of longing for union with another, physiological arousal |
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| Emotion will be stronger if we rev up arousal artificially in another situation |
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| Exitation transfer theory |
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| Any undecayed arousal from a previous stimulus will transfer to a present stimulus |
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| Misattribution of arousal |
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| misinterpret leftover arousal as contributory to event B (you think it all comes from second event) |
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| Examples of arousing behavior |
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| exercise, erotic material, doing something dangerous |
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| Geographical distance between people |
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| geographical closeness that allows interaction with person |
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| Repeated exposure to stimulus creates increased liking |
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| Increased exposure to a stimulus you already don't like creates more dislike for it |
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| Determines how close we let people, and who we let get close |
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| 18 inches, reserved for lovers |
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| 4 feet. People we like, not love |
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| 20 feet. People we keep our distance from (President, Queen) |
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| we like to look at things that are pleasing to the eye |
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| What-Is-Beautiful-Is-Good Stereotype |
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| Assumption that people who are physically attractive also have other socially desirable qualities |
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| A person of average physical attractiveness will be seen as more attractive when with a group of very attractive people |
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| We look for people that are similar to us |
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| We like people who are like us |
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| Age, social status, education, race, religion, ethnicity |
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| We like people who share our own similar attitudes |
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| When people share our attitudes, it validates our own view and makes us more comfortable |
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| Two people don't look to be similar, but they each bring something to the relationship that the other was lacking |
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| Conflict and Dissolution dimensions |
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| Active vs. Passive, Constructive vs. Destructive |
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| Active, constructive. Trying to restore conflict stage to a past happier time |
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| Passive, constructive. It'll pass, it'll be better |
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| Active, destructive. Divorce, move out. |
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| Passive, destructive. No interest in restoring relationship, no interaction with person |
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| Prior satisfaction, investments, comparison levels, comparison levels for alternatives |
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| Any behavior undertaken with the intention of injuring or harming another person, yourself, animal, thing. |
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| primary goal of deliberately harming someone else; arises out of anger |
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| Primary goal of achieving some other ends (deer hunting to feed family) |
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| Doing nothing and allowing someone to be hurt |
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| doing something behind someone's back |
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| manipulating and attempting to injure someone without actual confrontation |
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| Social learning (aggression) |
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| Teaching boys it is okay to be aggressive but not girls |
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| Instinct theory of aggression |
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| Competition for limited resources, man will instinctively be aggressive to man |
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| an unconscious desire for self destruction to avoid anxieties of everyday life |
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| innate motivation to preserve and reproduce ourselves |
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| survival motivation, genetics |
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| We should not aggress against our family members |
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| Can teach people what to think and how to behave |
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| Demonstrated effects of modeling on children when they see adult beating up or playing with Bobo doll |
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| teaches you when to do something and what to do to get it |
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| Rewards reinforce behavior, punishment tends to decrease behavior |
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| Deliberately causing pain to a child to control behavior |
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| Frustration Aggression hypothesis |
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| Frustration causes aggression |
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| Any external source that interferes with ability to achieve some desirable goal |
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| Frustration is an aversive experience, creates negative affect. The negative affect contributes to aggression |
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| mere presence of a weapon leads to aggressive behavior |
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| An idea that comes to consciousness when viewing a stimulus (primed to view a gun as a weapon) |
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| affect on eyesight when under the influence of alcohol. Impairs cognitive processing, impairs ability to rely on personal values and standards. Facilitates aggressive behavior |
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| Bidirectional hypothesis of aggression |
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| If you are characteristically an aggressive person and you watch violent TV, you will become more aggressive |
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| Effects of viewing violence |
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| Increases arousal (hostile aggression), stimulates negative moods, decreases inhibitions, acceptance of violent solutions, primes aggressive thoughts, provides models |
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| presentation of explicit sexual activity |
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| Higher sexual responses to watching porn than the average male, attitudes and actions against women, sexually coercive |
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| Genetic survival of helping |
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| If someone helps me, it will promote my own genetic survival |
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| we promote the survival of those who share our genes by helping them, even at our own risk |
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| Predisposition to help strangers because we expect to be helped in return |
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| Tend to help if they are more emotional, more empathetic, high in self esteem, high in self efficacy |
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| Motives for helping: Understanding |
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| Gaining knowledge about struggle of another person |
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| Motives for helping: Personal Development |
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| Motives for helping: Ego defense |
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| Forces me to deal with my own anxieties about problem |
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| Motives for helping: Esteem Enhancement |
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| Makes us feel better about doing a good thing |
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| Motives for helping: Value expression |
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Humanitarian obligation OR
Egoistic (self gratification)
Altruistic (unselfish desire to help)
Empathy (Feelings congruent with feelings and welfare of person in need)
Personal distress (Self oriented response of distress when you see someone in need)
Empathic concern (how you feel about the person who needs help, compassion) |
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| Motives for helping: Cognitive component |
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| Perspective taking (ability to view world through person in need's eyes) |
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| Negative State relief model |
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| our only motive for helping is to reduce our anxiety and negative affect |
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| People will experience more negative affect when they see person needing help |
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| Brings in something to negate negative effect (money, etc) improves affect |
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| agreed upon rules that say what is socially acceptable and what is not |
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| Norm of Social responsibility |
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| We should help people who are dependent on us, who cannot help themselves |
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| We should help people who deserve it, who have had bad things happen to them |
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| We should help people who help us |
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| Overly benefitted people should help less benefitted people |
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| Interpersonal attributions |
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How we decide who to help:
Dispositional attribution: it's their fault they need help
Situational attribution: not their fault |
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| Effects of time constraints |
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| Less likely to help if late, more likely to help if ahead of schedule |
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| when people assume someone else will help and stand by |
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Notice event
Interpret as an emergency
Assume responsibility
Decide to help
Execute behavior |
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| Short Circuits in decision process: Social influence |
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| If nobody else is responding, we are less likely to respond to situaton |
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| Short Circuits in decision process: Diffusion of responsibility |
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| There are others around but you feel you arent personally responsible, someone else is |
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| Short Circuits in decision process: Audience inhibition |
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| Concern for how we will be judged if we help |
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