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Agriculture
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Term
Why do we have a need for affiliation and belonging? 
Definition

We need to be connected to others

Families/clans protect us

Need to form alliances in order to ensure protection

Social groups provides predicitability…(ie when you first get to college, help you know the “lay of the land”) 

Term
What are the social goals? 
Definition

w Desire for status, popularity, and admiration as a measure of personal competence

w Desire for love and belonging

w Fear of rejection, engulfment, abandonment

Term
What are the seven benefits of social support?
Definition

w Reduces uncertainty

w  More positive self-concept

w  Increases self-esteem

w  Increases self-efficacy

w  Increases ability to cope

w  Better quality of life

w  Better physical and mental health

Term
What are Baney's four social styles?
Definition
analytic, driver, amiable, expressive 
Term
What are the three strategies for social development?
Definition
courage to be yourself, communication, cooperation 
Term
expressive-
Definition
life of the party, enthusiastic, social, fast paced, fun loving, great story teller, energy, ....downsides: center of attention, all about them, poor listener 
Term
driver
Definition
confident, pragmatic, driven
Term
amiable 
Definition
good team player, supporter, relationship oriented, needs everyone to like them, not good with conflict in social setting, dont know how to deal with interpersonal problems 
Term
analytic-
Definition
detailed, not patient with story telling, precision, slow place of conversation, task oriented, systematic, downside: perfectionist 
Term
In regards to Courage (Johari's Window)...things I know and things they know=
Definition
open area 
Term
Things they know/things i dont know=
Definition
blind spots 
Term
things they don't know and things i know =
Definition
hidden area 
Term
things they don't know and things i don't know=
Definition
unknown
Term
Three roadblocks to communication: 
Definition
judging, avoiding, problem-solving 
Term
three parts of active listening: 
Definition
attending skills, following, skills, reflecting skills 
Term
Three sayings to be assertive: 
Definition

"when you..."

"I feel/am..."

"Because..." 

Term
Cooperation
Definition

w  Think Win-Win

n A commitment to agreements that allow everyone to win

n When two or more people work to reach agreement, they each have a personal list of things they want

n Win-win means seeking agreements that provide maximum mutual benefit

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