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Interpersonal Psych Section 2
Friendship Basics -the 4 loves
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Psychology
Undergraduate 2
11/11/2008

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Term
Friendship
Definition
Person with whom you are intimate with, fond of, seek out.
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C.S. Lewis 4 loves
Definition
Storge
Eros
Agapao
Phileo
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Storge
Definition
Affection "bond type of love" family
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Eros
Definition

(erotic) sexual, physical part (Venus different from Eros)

 profane vs sacred love

Venus(wants it) Eros(wants you)

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Agapao
Definition
Gift love, most "Godlike"
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Phileo
Definition
Friendship type of love. David and Jonathon
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Phileo Versus Storge
Definition

Phileo Storge Can't choose family, can choose friends

storge rears us in the home,

phileo rears us outside the home

storge- similar genes

Phileo- similar truths

Storge- because of love

Phileo- about love

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Phileo versus Eros
Definition
Eros Phileo
Naked Bodies Naked souls
Survival value Value of survival
face to face side by side
stringent regulations not
exclusive able 4 more
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Phileo versus agapao
Definition
Agapao Phileo
most devine love Most human of loves
giving sharing
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Rules of Friendship
Definition

Support-loyalty, encouragement etc.

Freedom-not worry about saying everything right. More easily forgiven. Can be truthful

Disclosure- ability to share feelings... soul

Reciprocity-you help me, I help you

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Dark Side of Friendship
Definition

compromise

Mask inability to be alone/ without someone

affective lonliness- people around, but not fulfilling

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Adolescence-time
Definition
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Cliques and Crowds
Definition
Clique=small# of people interact/hang together and develop close relationships
Crowds=Groups of cliques
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Charicature
Definition
exaggerated stereotype
causes less interactions
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Channeling
Definition
Live up to image others have of you. "bad boy"
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permeability
Definition
ease with which you move in and out of different groups
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desirability
Definition
how much people want in
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Best friends
Definition
Peaks during adolescence
crucial role (marraige prep)
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Conflicts
Definition
make relationship stronger or disolve them
betrayal=carnival sin in relationships
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demographics
Definition
successful relationships based on likeness
inter-class friendships
more simimilar values
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Female Friendships
Definition
earlier age
more SD
More time with friends
more clique-ish
female bullying= ostricism
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Peer pressure
Definition
don't see when in it
15-18 age when peer pressure is the highest
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college years-friendships
Definition
many, frequent, but transient relationships
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Middle Years friendship
Definition
friends based on social networks (church, work) Weeding out of relationships
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Older years
Definition
less amounts of relationships but often much closer
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