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| name the 4 depositions by Brinkman and Kirschner |
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| Ruler, analyzer, entertainer, relater |
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tasks / people
assertive / passive |
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| define interpersonal communication |
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All interactions that occur between two peple to help start, build, maintains and sometimes end or redefine interpersonal relationships.
communication in which parties considers one another as unique individuals rather than objects. There are 6 features 1. meaning 2. choice 3 culture 4 identities 5 conversation 6 nexting |
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| Name and define the three fundamentals of self |
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1. self-concept=how you see yourself (and that comes from how others see you, how you compare, how you evaluate your feelings and emotions
2.Self-awareness
3 Self-esteem |
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| Definition of self-disclosure |
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| Self-disclousre is information we are not likely to find in other ways ... reciprocity is important the purpose is to build and reflect trust between people |
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| Reason for self disclosure or not to do self disclosure |
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To help understand yourself
self validation
to get the other person to self disclose
to have the other form an opinion abt you
maintenance and enhancement of relationship
social control
Risky to do self disclosure |
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| Maslow's hierarchy of needs |
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physical needs
safety needs
belonging needs
self actualization
self-esteem needs |
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| Buber's concept of relationships |
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| Miller's definition of a relationship - the components |
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1. on-going in content 2. long-lasting 3. important to both 4. increases history
5. future is anticipated |
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| what are the two levels in relationships? |
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1. Content meaning
2. relationship meaning
(I'm OK You're OK) |
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| Three dimensions of relationship - level |
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1. responsiveness is awareness and involvement
2. Liking is positive and negative. Feelings are communicated
3. Power/ Control balance between controlling and submissive. |
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| Schultz's needs theory of relationships. What are the components? |
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1. inclusions 2. Affections 3. Control
the three most important interpersonal needs most people share: the need for control, inclusion and affection or openness. The technical name for this theory is Fundamental Interpersonal Relations Orientation. aka primary things and how they are balance... |
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| basic principles of interpersonal communication, 9 of them. |
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1. We cannot, not communicate.
2. IC is irreversible physically or verbally
3. IC involves ethical choices
4. People construct meaning through IC and define who we are thruogh other people
5. meta communication affects meaning, time, place, situation, talking
6. I.C. builds and sustains relationships
7. IC Does not solve all problems in relationships.. it creates meaning.
8. IC's effectiveness is a learned process
9. Nois exists at everylevel of IC... interrupters .. misinterpretations |
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| William James components of self |
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Social self Private self
Physical self Emotional self |
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Open =we know and they know
Blind we don’t know but they know
Hidden I know but You don’t know
Unknown = nobody knows |
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| Ethics in Interpersonal relationships |
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| right and wrong. Code of conduct and moral principles. IC is irreversible and affects others. IC affects how they feel, how they see themselves, how they think aobu themselves and other. Do you judge others from your own perspective or do you try to understand from others perspective. equality and mindfulness of other empathetic |
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| Name 5 guidelines for self-disclosing |
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1. is the other important to you?
2. Is the benefit worth the risk.\
3. Is the disclosure appropriate?
4. Will the disclosure be reciprocated?
5. What will be gained from the disclosure. |
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| 5 components of self disclosure |
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New Communicated Prusued?
Understood Accepted |
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