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| What are the skills associated with the basic listening sequence? |
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| open and close ended questions, encouraging, paraphrasing, reflecting feelings, and summaraization |
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| What is a positive asset search? |
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| Helping the client see the their positives and strengths |
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| What are the steps of the Positive Asset Search |
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1. Begin by asking what has happened recently that the client feels good about.
2. Use the BLS to bring out positive client assets in detail.
3. When a client constantly repeats negative self-statements, use a paraphrase and then follow with a carefully timed feedback from a more positive viewpoint.
4. One possible goal in counseling is to help clients find strengths in their weaknesses.
Emphasize human development rather than remediation of problems. |
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| mixed messages in non verbal behaviors, between two verbal statements, and discrepancies between what the person says and what they do. These are issues within the client themselves, always internal |
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When someone has an external conflict, and therefore it is causing them stress. Some examples of these would be others (family friends etc) or coping with failure, or how their ethnicity is perceived. Conflicts with others
You can also have discrepancies between you and the client, if you come from different areas |
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| Probe for Meaning/reflection of meaning |
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whats's been missing in your live,
what gives you the most satisfaction
what do you value
How do you make sense |
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emotion
how do you feel
I hear you are feeling
Sounds like you are feeling |
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| is that right? Am I hearing you correctly? is that what you said? |
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| what do the authors say about the different theories |
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Theories are ways of finding an alternate new reality from a new point of view.
Any of these can be correct, but it depends more on the person and situation |
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| What is the 1,2,3 method? |
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Listen
Assess and Influence
Check out and Observe |
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| What is negative feedback |
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| only use when the client has not been willing to hear corrective feedback. It is when you have to say the truth and call the client out |
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| What is constructive feedback |
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| Negative feedback with support and praise |
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| What is the difference between and non judgemental and a judgemental statement |
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a non judgmental statement tells what you see observe or can tell "I see you are proud of your grad"
A judgemental statement expreses how you feel about the person "You did a good job" |
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| if you do this...., then... Will help clients change anticipating the consequence of their actions |
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