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| What are Personal Relationships? |
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Unique commitment between irreplaceable individuals who are influence by:
- Rules
- Relational Dialectics
- Surrounding Contexts
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| What does Uniqueness mean? |
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| one of a kind meaning the way the person is |
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| A decision with intent to share the future and to remain in a relationship in-spite of troubles or turmoil. |
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What type of rules are involved in Personal Relationships?
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What should be asked? |
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Definition
- Constitutive
- Regulative
- What is expected?
- What is allowed?
- When & How to do various things?
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| What are surrounding contexts? |
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It is when a personal relationship IS (CAN BE) Affected by external factors. Like:
- Social Media
- Friends
- Family
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| What are Relational Dialectics? |
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| Opposing and continual tensions. They are normal in a relationship. |
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| What are Autonomy/ Connection Dialectics? |
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| This is friction between contradictory impulses |
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| When does Novelty/predictability dialectics occur? |
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| When the individual wants to have a familiar |
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| What kind of dialectics occur when the tension is over desire? |
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| Which type of meeting will you obtain the most personal information? |
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| What type of meeting will an individual share the least amount of personal information? |
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| What are the 3 stages of a Romantic Relationship? |
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- Escalation
- Navigation
- Deterioration
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| refuse to discuss arising problematic issues |
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What is the 4 horseman of the Apocalypse?
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What is the phrase that identifies them? |
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Definition
- Complaint an Critisism
- Defensive and Denial of Responsability
- Expressions of contempt
- Stonewalling
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Corrosive Communication Partners |
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| Conversation is continuously changing and shifting from one stage to the next. What are the 5 stages? |
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Definition
- begin
- Grow
- Endure
- Decline
- End
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| What does a romantic relationship require (50/50)? |
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- Passion
- Investment of time and effort
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| Conversation is continuously changing and shifting from one stage to the next. What are the 5 stages? |
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- begin
- Grow
- Endure
- Decline
- End
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[image]
What is this referred to as? |
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| What is considered the "Nucleus of Love"? |
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What specifically is deeply linked to the Autonomy and Connection tensions?
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Where does it arise from? |
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Definition
It is deeply linked to intimates, we cherish sharing experiences,thoughts, and feeling
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These tensions arise from Contradictory Impulses. |
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| What are the 4 ways in Managing Dialectics? |
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- Neutralization
- Separation
- Segmentation
- Reframing
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| How does neutralization affect dialectical need? |
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| Each dialectical need is met to an extent but neither is fully satisfied. |
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| What does Separation dialectical tensions do? |
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| It is a response that favors only one need and ignores all others |
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How does Segmentation deal with dialectical tensions?
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What two topics are not discussed? |
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Definition
Partners assign each need to certain Spheres, issues, activities, or times (compartmentalization of Needs)
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- Religion
- Politics
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| What happens when a romantic couple transcends apparent tensions and defines the tensions as mutually enriching? |
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| Re-framing is a complex strategy, where a couple redefines the tension as an Enrichment rather than a tension. |
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[image]
What does this diagram represent?
(I know there is a spelling error do not flag the card Storge) |
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| This diagram is representation of Figure 7.1, "The Colors of Love". |
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Term
| What are the 4 stages of violence? |
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- Tension
- Explosion
- Remorse
- Honeymoon
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(purple)
Style of loving that is intense, passionate, and fast. NOT confined to sexual passion. Maybe involved in:
1. Spirituality
2. Intellectual
3. Emotional ways
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| What is storage (store-gay)? |
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| A comfortable, Best-friends kind of loving that gradually grows to creat an even- keeled and stable companionship. |
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A playful, sometimes manipulative style of loving
-Ludus lovers view love as a game or a challenge. Not one to lead to commitment.
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| Emotional Extremes, Insecure about themselves and their partner's commitment. |
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Selfless kind of love
-Generous, unselfish, and devoted. |
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(Not Random) Coherent system of understandings, Traditoions, values, communication, practices, and ways of life
- Culture is most important |
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| What is culture intelligence- |
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Definition
the motivational, cognitive, and behavioral abilities to understand and adopt to a range of contexts, people, patterns of interaction
Has 4 compotes
1. Drive- extent of motivation
2. Knowledge- extent of understanding
3. strategy- Ability to predict how an event will unfold
4. Action- Capacity to adapt behavior
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| What is individuals/ collectivism? |
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| Members of a culture understand themselves as part of and connected to their families, groups, and cultures |
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| What Uncertainty Avoidance? |
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| Extent to which people try to avoid ambiguity and vagueness. |
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| Size of a gap between people of High and Low power (Dominance) and the extent to which the gap is considered normal. |
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| What is Masculinity/ Femininity? |
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1. Masculinity values aggressiveness; competitiveness, looking out for yourself, and dominate others and nature.
2. Femininity values Gentalness, cooperation, and living in harmony. |
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| What is long-term/ short-term orientation? |
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long-term is the extent to which members of a culture think about history and future.
Short-term is the present |
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| What is the third Principle of culture variation? |
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| Cultures are dynamic because they evolve and change overtime. |
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| What are 4 sources culture changes? |
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1. Invention- creation of tools, ideas, and practices. ex: environmental responsibility or environmental ethics
2. Diffusion- to barrow form other cultures. Ex: English language
3. Calamity- adversity that brings about change in a culture. Ex: war in a country or environmental disasters
4. Communication- propels change by naming things in such a s way so we understand them. Ex: "date rape" coins phrase 1980's |
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| What are social communities (cocultures)? |
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the fourth principle.
Groups of people who live in a dominate culture, yet they are members of another group that are not dominate in that culture. |
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| What is High- context communication style? |
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indirect and undetailed
- Assumed people are deeply interconnected and don't need everything spelled out.
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| What is Low-Context Communication style? |
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Explicit, detailed and precise.
-the members of this culture
1. individualist
2. social communities |
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| Collections of people who engage in hatred, aggression, or violence towards member or members of a specific group. |
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| The use of one's own culture and its's proctices as the standard for interpreting other cultures. |
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| What is cultural Relativism? |
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| the concept that cultures vary in how we think, act, and behave; as well as what they believe and value. |
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| occurs when we attack the culture practices and claim our is more superior. |
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| Occurs when people give up their culture for a more dominate one. |
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| the acceptance of differences even though we may not approve of ore understand. |
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| assumption that NO culture is better than another. |
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| One values other's culture even if they don't involve the other culture in ones life. |
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| to incorporate another's practices and values in to their life. |
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