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Communication in Everyday Life
Feldner Exam 2
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Communication
Undergraduate 1
10/03/2010

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5 Characteristics of Interviews
Definition
1) Goal Driven
2) Question-Answer
3) Structured
4) Controlled
5) Unbalanced
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Goal Driven
Definition
interview has a clear purpose
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Question-Answer
Definition
One person asks, the other answers
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Structured
Definition
Planning/prep is required
There is a clear sequence
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Controlled
Definition
Directive or non-directive
Interviewer controls it
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Unbalanced
Definition
Interviewer speaks 30% of time
Interviewee speaks 70% of time
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Types of Interviews
Definition
- employment
- performance
- exit
- info-gaining
- persuasive
- problem-solving
- helping
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Employment Interview
Definition
- employee determining whether to accept the job if offered
- employer trying to convince employee to accept job if offered
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Performance Interview
Definition
- employee-supervisor
- student-teacher
- strengths and weaknesses discussed
- goals reinforced
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Exit Interviews
Definition
- when someone chooses to leave their job
- provide employers with insight
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Info-Gaining Interviews
Definition
- surveys
- doctors visits
- journalistic interviews
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Persuasive Interviews
Definition
- influence is the ultimate goal
- interviewer trying to influence interviewee
- salespeople conduct these
- political surveys
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Problem-Solving Interviews
Definition
- problems are isolated and solutions are generated
- teacher-student
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Helping Interviews
Definition
- psychologist-patient
- attorney-client
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Pre-Interview Responsibilities: Interviewer
Definition
- review application material
- prepare questions and interview outline
- gather needed materials
- begin on time
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Pre-Interview Responsibilities: Interviewee
Definition
- gather info
- prepare questions
- practice
- professional personal appearance
- arrive on time
- bring materials
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Beginning an Employment Interview
Definition
- greeting and establishing proxemics (rapport)
- negotiating relational connection and tone
- establishing purpose and agenda (orientation)
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Types of Employment Interview Questions
Definition
- Primary/Secondary (probing, mirror)
- Open/Closed
- Neutral/Leading
- Directive/Non-directive
- Illegal
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Answering Questions During an Employment Interview
Definition
- adjusting to interview frame
- learning from successful and unsuccessful interviewees
- answering common questions
- dealing with illegal questions
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Common Interview Questions
Definition
- Tell me about yourself
- Greatest strengths/weaknesses
- What do you know about the organization?
- Why do you want to work here?
- What is your ideal job?
- Why do you want to leave your current job?
- What are your expectations in terms of salary?
- Where do you see yourself in five years?
- Why should we hire you?
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Dealing with Illegal Questions
Definition
- tactful refusal
- direct but brief answer
- tactful inquiry
- neutralize concern
- exploit the question
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Concluding an Employment Interview: Interviewer Responsibilities
Definition
- wrap-up signal
- summarize the interview
- ask for questions
- preview future actions and schedule
- offer thanks
- farewells
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Concluding an Employment Interview: Interviewee Responsibilities
Definition
- ask questions
- reinforce qualifications and enthusiasm
- inquire about schedule
- offer thanks
- farewells
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Post-Interview Responsibilities: Interviewer
Definition
- assess candidate
- assess personal performance
- contact interviewee about final decision
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Post-Interview Responsibilities: Interviewee
Definition
- assess interview
- send follow-up letter
- avoid irritating interviewer
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Purposes of a Cover Letter
Definition
- declare interest in a position
- provide summary of qualifications
- compel person to read resume
- request an interview
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Cover Letter "How To's"
Definition
1) address letter to a specific person
2) identify position you are applying for
3) summarize qualifications and promote resume
4) reaffirm interest and request interview
5) sign-off with respect and professionalism
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Parts of a Resume
Definition
1) name and contact info
2) career objective
3) education and training
4) experiences
5) skills
6) activities
Term
STAR Response
Definition
- Situation
- Task
- Action
- Result
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Identity as Inner Core: Self-Concept
Definition
drawn from cultural and social frames, people can have multiple/changing identities
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Self-Disclosure
Definition
- revelation of info that others could not know unless they were told
- FB is used a lot for this
- openly stated as insights to one's opinions
- relationships make a difference to the value of this
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Identity and Other People
Definition
- society influences how we view identity
- other people may influence how one's identity is expressed
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Narrative Self and Altercasting
Definition
- ontology- how I came to be who I am
- epistemology- how I think a/t the world
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Symbolic Identity/Self
Definition
Self that exists for others and arises with social interaction
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Symbolic Interactionism
Definition
how broad social forces affect an individual's view of themselves, self arises out of social interaction
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Transacting a Self in Interaction with Others
Definition
people's relationships affect their identities
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Performative Self
Definition
- "doing" an identity, front region (professional), back region (relaxed)
- affected by self needs of the time, social situation, social frame, circumstances
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Identity is connected to...
Definition
- language
- other people
- social norms, rules, categories
- narrative of origin and belonging
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Rules of Self Disclosure
Definition
- not appropriate in all relationships
- consider the affect it will have on others
- choose the right time and place for it
- should be related to what is happening in the "here and now"
- should be gradual
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Responding to Self Disclosure
Definition
- Advising and Evaluating- fixing
- Analyzing and Interpreting- being Dr. Phil
- Reassuring and Supporting
- Questioning and Probing- careful not to make it advising and evaluating
- Paraphrasing and Understanding- IDEAL!!
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Families teach...
Definition
- socialization
- values
Term
Types of "Families"
Definition
- structural- by blood, marriage, etc.
- functional- support
- transactional- comm that builds a sense of family in a group
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Four Category Topology for Families
Definition
- Protective- Hi Conform, Lo Convo
- Pluralistic- Lo Conform, Hi Convo
- Consensual- Hi Conform, Hi Convo
- Laisse-faire- Lo Conform, Lo Convo
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Characteristics of Groups
Definition
- goal oriented, self regulating
- mutually interdependent
- HOMEOSTASIS
- nonsummativity- whole is greater than the sum of its parts
- cohesiveness- teamwork
- norms, roles, culture
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Groups vs. Individual
Definition
- expert vs nonexperts
- group size, too large is bad and can prevent decision making
- task
- commitment to project/decision, slacker can bring group down
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Defining a Group
Definition
- common purpose
- organized members
- transactional comm
how info is transacted determines an individual's stance in the group
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Tuckman's Five Stages of Group Development
Definition
1) Forming
2) Storming
3) Norming
4) Performing
5) Adjourning
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Fisher's Model of Group Digression
Definition
1) Orientation
2) Conflict
3) Emergence- leader established
4) Reinforcement
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Forming/Orientation Phase
Definition
- primary tension- getting to know others
- comp comm- positive, open, friendly
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Storming/Conflict Phase
Definition
- secondary tension- how do we complete this job
- comp comm- handles secondary tension
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Norming/Emergence Phase
Definition
- individual establishes purpose
- group decides to work as a team
- comp comm- adapt to norms and knows when to advocate views
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Performing/Emergence Phase
Definition
- individual performs role
- comp comm- collaborative, motivates others
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Bolster Decision (Reinforcement) Phase
Definition
- no tension
- comp comm- recognizes what's good, performs role
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Adjourning Phase
Definition
- how members transit out
- comp comm- maintains networks
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Groupthink
Definition
group doesn't listen to arguments against their own, overrides ability to consider alternatives
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Symptoms of Groupthink
Definition
- illusion of invulnerability
- belief in group's inherent morality- what they are trying to accomplish is more important than anything else
- shared stereotypes- you don't get it b/c you're not us
- collective rationalization- selective listening
- self-censorship- don't speak up b/c you don't want to seem like you're not part of the team
- illusion of unanimity
-pressure on dissenters
- mind-guards- protect yourself from negative info
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Effects of GT
Definition
- problem-solving disrupted
- failure to test idea
- no contingency plans
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Preventing GT
Definition
- assign a critic
- take critic's warning seriously
- notice when you are denigrating other positions
- review decisions once they are made
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Functional Theory of Group Decision Making
Definition
1) define problem
2) issue analysis
3) criteria selection
4) solution generation
5) solution evaluation
6) solution selection and implementation
Term
Danger of One Story
Definition
- creates stereotypes
- puts people in a box
- overapplies to everyone
Term
Relationships and Talk
Definition
- R influences T
- T is revealing, influencing, constructing Rs
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Indexical Function of Talk
Definition
how we talk indicates the relationship
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Essential Function of Talk
Definition
maintains relationship, talks about status of the relationship
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Duck's Interpersonal Attraction Filtering Theory
Definition
- sociological or incidental- mutual friends, from same town, etc.
- preinteraction cues- things you notice before you even speak
- interaction- conversational flow
- cognitive- shared values, attitude
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Duck's Serial Construction of Meaning
Definition
1) Paths Cross- commonality, start of relationship
2) Start Talking- mutuality, talking a/t common interests
3) So Much in Common- equivalence of evaluation
4) Being a Couple- shared meaning
Term
Duck's Relational Dissolution Model
Definition
1) Intrapsychic Process- avoiding other person, unhappy
2) Dyadic Process- talking through problems
3) Social Process- talking to friends a/t it, persuasion to your view
4)Grave Dressing Process- saving face, acting rational
5)Resurrection Process- open to different directions, relationships
Term
Rigid Role Relationships
Definition
- dominance- one up
- submission- one down
Term
Complimentary Patterns
Definition
- Rigid Complementary- one uping each other
- Symmetrical Pattern- competitive (one up, one up, one up, etc.) OR submissive (both people refusing to take control)
Term
Disconfirming Messages
Definition
- impervious- failing to acknowledge the significance of a message
- interrupting- suggests other person isn't important
- irrelevant- move onto something else
- tangential- talking a/t it, but not directly
- impersonal- distant lang, verbally backing up, shut down other person
- incoherent- doesn't make sense
- incongruous- nonverbal and verbal don't match up
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Paradoxes
Definition
- contradictory messages
- double bind
- "do something for me" = "you did it only b/c I told you to" OR "you didn't do it"
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Spirals
Definition
- working against each other
- regressive- negative
- progressive- positive
Term
Dealing w/ Conflict
Definition
- identify patterns and fit to goals/context
- interest vs position- interest is the overall goal, position is your solution
- interest is lost when you are set on a position
- avoid gunnysacking- throwing unrelated things into argument
- be aware of cultural differences
- choose appropriate time and place
- define nature of problem
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Giving Effective Feedback
Definition
- own your message
- avoid apologizing for feelings
- make message specific
- NV and V should be the same
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