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| Known anxieties i.e. Going to the doctor to get a specific problem checked out. Also for shyness / timidness. |
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| Over worrying about others i.e. "I won't quit worrying until so & so gets home". |
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| Fear with no known cause i.e. "I just feel like something awful is going to happen". |
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| Terror i.e. waking up screaming from a nightmare. |
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| Fear of losing self control i.e. "If this doesn't stop, Ill...". |
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| indecision when faced with alternative courses of action (usually trivial) i.e. Can't make up mind when shopping |
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| Can not make up their mind about ultimate goals or where they want to go or what they want to do. Usually have little difficutly with every day decisions. i.e. "I don't kow what I want to do, but I don't want to do this". |
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| Not confident in their own decision making ability. Makes a decision, but then doubts it. Asks others for advice. i.e. "What would you do if you were me?" |
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| inability to get self going in the morning. The Monday Morning Remedy i.e. "I feel tired just thinking about it". |
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| feeling of defeat after a set-back i.e. "I Failed my driving test! Thats the end of that then!" |
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| When a person has completly given up. "Sunshine in a bottle" - shines light on darkness of hoplessness and despair. i.e. "I don't think you can help me...nothing can cure me". |
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| Always on the go, invoved in causes & campaigns, over-enthusiastic i.e. "It was ust so unfair. I had to speak out". |
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| Strong opinions, but only towards self. Can sometimes lead to self denial & loss of pleasure. I.e. "This is right and that is wrong. I know Im right, but you can do whatever you want". |
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| Seeks to convert others to their way of life. Very intolerant. I.e. "What a stupid way of carrying on...what's wrong with these people?" |
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| Seeks to get way by force. Does not critisize opions of others, simply ignores them. I.e. "Don't argue, just do it!" |
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| Have a lot of love to give, but can also be possesive & selfish. Try to control loved ones through correction and admonishment. Easily hurt & can resort to emotional black-mail. I.e. "I've never thought of myself. I've done everything for her...and look how she treats me!" |
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| So wrapped up in themselves & their problems that they forget about others concerns & problems. Scared of being lonely --> find an audience --> incessant talking --> end up being alone. |
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| Always in a hurry, no patience for slowness, when made to wait becomes irratible, & frustrated i.e. "I haven't got all day!" |
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| Nature's artistocats - capable, graceful, centered and private. Can sometimes be isolating and make it difficult to socialize. i.e. "You go your way, I'll go mine". |
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| Helps ease into a new stage. Helps protect against unwanted influences and the effects of change. Helps a person make change that they want to make, but for some external reason they are holding back. |
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| Kind & gentle servant who has a hard time saying, "no". |
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| People who make light of crisis & hide, tormented, behind a cheerful mask i.e. "Look on the bright side...". |
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| Remedy for negative emotions directed towards others such as jealousy, suspicion, spite, & envy. i.e. "I can't help it. I just feel insanely jealous & its eating me up". |
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