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-something you do ahead of time that could threaten the identity you want to correct
-verbal device to ward off negative implications of an impending action or statement
Example: Don't take this the wrong way, but...
I'm not really sure about this, but...
-They are are not always kept.
-Attempt to separate the action from the actor
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-what you try and do to correct yourself after the deed
-Attempts to repair the damage that is done when something was reflected badly on them.
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Excuse
Justification
Apology
Notes:Use justification to kill the relationship
Apologies can sometimes reconcile the relationship and ultimately save it
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acknowledges that the action was wrong, but denies responsibility for the action
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accepts responsibility but denies that the act was wrong
-Pleading special circumstances
"yeah i did it but don't judge me seriously"
-Joy Riding
-No one got hurt, No harm No Foul
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admit act was wrong, and you admit responsibility
-Ask for Forgiveness
Mist maintain the positive identity of the actor in the face of an apparent negative action
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it is also because it illustrates how important identity identifies a function as something that affects and repair technologies
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